Church Life Meg Haden Church Life Meg Haden

Thinking About...Fall and Rest

Meg Haden, City Church's Director of Women's Ministry, shares her thoughts on Fall and the importance of rest --and gives us a preview of what to expect at this weekend's women's seminar where Paige brown will teach on the highs and lows of faith, as told through the story of Elijah.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About...Soda

By now you have probably heard about Mayor Michael Bloomberg’s plan to limit (to a mere sixteen ounces) the size of soda sold by vendors within New York City. The proposal has all sorts of implications for politics and for public health. But I’ve been thinking about this soda ban from the standpoint of desire.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About...Holy Week

In my previous posts, I introduced the Church season of Lent as the preparatory time leading up to the celebration of Jesus’ resurrection at Easter. Easter Sunday is now only two weeks away. However, our minds are more likely turned to upcoming events of the secular calendar: Spring Break, April Fools’ Day, the Masters. Because media and merchandisers champion and manipulate our calendars for their priorities, I’ve been forcing myself to think about Easter Week (aka Holy Week). I want to encourage you to, as well.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About...Lent

I write this on Valentine’s Day knowing full well that stores everywhere are poised for tomorrow, ready to slash prices on chocolate, liquidate all heart-shaped merchandise, and swap out reds and pinks for the Kelly green of St. Patrick’s Day. The rotation of pop-up displays in every convenience store reminds us that our culture--and in large part our lives--is shaped by a corporate calendar. Next week, however, marks the beginning of Lent in the Church calendar. I’ve been thinking about Lent and how it can shape our lives.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About...Christmas Date

Every year as Christmas draws near I hear bah-humbug arguments insisting that the Church’s Christmas celebration is non-historical. It’s just a selling out, they say, concocted to compete with pagan winter festivals. Well, it’s time to bah-humbug the bah-humbugs.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About...True Grit

The mortar between some of the bricks of our house near our back door was falling out and I was sure our kids were to blame. They’d been out there, I assumed, picking at loose mortar, spraying it with the hose, jamming in foreign objects. I had my discipline speech ready. I was contemplating the right punishment to mete out. But it wasn’t the kids’ fault. It turns out house sparrows have been pecking at our mortar as a source of dietary grit.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About...Hedge Funds

Thirteen summers ago, I packed up my college dorm room only to unpack in another rather Spartan apartment near my graduate school of choice. Meanwhile, the roommate with whom I exchanged goodbyes headed off to Westport, Connecticut to work at a financial company called Bridgewater Associates. We’ve stayed in touch as our lives have developed and as our families have grown. This weekend I picked up the New Yorker and saw an article about Bridgewater. It got me thinking about “the world’s biggest hedge fund” where my college roommate works and its corporate culture.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About... Finales

If I were more savvy to the Internets, I would have posted this last week to coincide with July 4th. But my reflections are slow and it takes awhile for thoughts to form. You see, over the last week, I’ve been thinking about finales.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About...Water Wings

Our kids love swimming pools. They splash contentedly for hours in heavily-chlorinated water. I, too, am fond of swimming, but my real love is sitting in the sun and reading. Therefore, I place great value on my kids ability to floating without my immediate physical presence—whether through their own prowess or through the use of artificial floatation. Our floatation device of choice is water wings.

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Church Life Erik Bonkovsky Church Life Erik Bonkovsky

Thinking About…Differences

Since Sunday, I’ve been second-guessing the sermon I gave on Mother's Day. As I said in that very sermon, ‘Mother's Day is an impossible day.” One of the reasons it’s an impossible day is because it unavoidably calls attention to our differences. I’ve been thinking about those differences.

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